Your training should help you handle your stress, not add to it.
Relaxed Performance
Can you feel well and perform at a high level?
Yes.
Most high achievers live in a trade-off:
push harder and feel worse—
or feel better and do less.
Neither feels great.
There is another way.
A way to be driven, focused, and effective—without constant tension.
To pursue your goals without sacrificing your health.
This is relaxed performance.
A state where your body is at ease, your mind is clear,
and your effort is directed—not forced.
It’s not a mindset. It’s a skill.
One you can build.
Hi, I’m Ryan Burkholder.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been drawn to both the physical and the philosophical.
As a student-athlete, I studied history while training and competing at a high level.
I went on to play professional hockey in Europe and Asia.
Along the way, I began to question how we train, perform, and push ourselves.
I vividly remember watching people exercise in the parks of Shanghai—fluid and at ease. A stark contrast to how I felt beat up despite being half their age. I wanted the performance, but I knew something had to change.
In 2013, I became a personal trainer and began studying osteopathy, seeking a more integrated understanding of the body and mind.
For years, I felt caught between two worlds—training the body or exploring the mind. Over time, I realized they aren’t separate.
How we move and breathe can amplify our presence—or increase our suffering. Having a sense of control over these things is a skill that can become a superpower.
I draw from athletics and the healing arts, using a somatic approach—working with the body and breath—to help you perform at a high level while feeling well.

